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It is the EGO who wants to get rid of the EGO through spiritual practices.
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Every BUT and every HOWEVER create a crossroads in your energy, where you stop speaking the way you want it to be and start feeling contrary to how source feels about it.
Just do the pretty talk and then stop right there and don't spoil it with contradicting energy, by saying 'However'.
Stop there and let the momentum build from that. Speak it the way you want it to be. Practise the vibration the way you want it to be. Ignore the conditions you're facing at that moment... ignore the rightness or wrongness of the conditions or you'll limit yourself drastically because, as you're looking at conditions that have already become results, you have very little control in the way you feel about them and as you have very little control in the way you feel about them, then what happens is you just produce more vibration that produces more of those conditions.
So using the pretty words that feel good is what we're talking about when we say 'be unconditional'. Words that haven't anything to do with the condition. We're not asking you to give us an accurate description of what is unless it's your intention to perpetuate in every detail exactly what is.
~ Abraham (slightly paraphrased)
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It takes a lot of time to be a genius. You have to sit around so much, doing nothing, really doing nothing.
- from poet and writer Gertrude Stein
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Problems will continue to arise till you come to a deep understanding of witnessing. That is the only golden key, discovered by centuries of inward search in the East: that there is no need to solve any problem. You simply observe it, and the very observation is enough; the probler evaporates.
~ Osho